3 Ways to Let Him Know You’re Kinky (Without Telling Him)

When it comes to sex your man is a visual creature, so the best way to let him know it’s safe to express his kinky side is to do it in a visual way. Sure you could come right out and tell him, but it’s much more fun to inspire him. Here are three visual cues you can wear that will have your man topping you in no time.

1. Wear Stockings

I have yet to meet a man who can resist slapping the ass of a woman in stockings. The way the tops encircle the thighs and frame a woman’s goods is irresistibly sexy. And something about having the legs covered yet exposed near the genitals is very intriguing. If your man is innately kinky, this is the best way to see how he responds. Your stockings can be anything from fully-fashioned back seams to hold-ups and are best worn with heels. Even just simple pumps will do nicely to complete this sexy look.

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2. Wear Red Lipstick

Red is the color of passion, and in lipstick form it’s an intense concentration. Think 1940s and 50s vintage ruby crimson. A mouth encircled with red instinctively conjures up passion within a man, and if there’s any kink in him it just might bring it out. I’ll admit, at times I’m apprehensive to take out the bomb that red lipstick can be because it does make kissing quite cumbersome. But some evenings call for it, and the kinky ones seem to have you wearing it all over your face. But don’t be afraid to wear your smeared lipstick proudly.

3. Wear a Skirt, But Leave the Panties at Home

If you’re trying to bring out the kinky spice in a man who you intend to have a sexual relationship with, I suggest wearing a skirt for playful and clandestine interaction—but leave your panties at home. This can be especially fun in public. When he reaches up a hand and feels your bare skin, it will give him a thrill as well as inspiration.

How about you? Have you ever covertly inspired a man to be kinky?

Author: Eden Lighthipe

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